Having sex with wife

The therapist then turns to the husband and says, "See, your wife needs this every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. We basically do nothing together anymore and are nothing more than co-habitants. She had a mental breakdown in I became basically a single parent for about six months or so and has been seeing therapy ever since. Why some think it is the worse and most annoying thing is beyond me. It is worth the effort and investment. I hope you will both seek the help and guidance you need to find a way to communicate in a way where you both are truly hearing the other. You stiffen when he hugs you.

So why the dry spell? Your meds are stealing your sex drive Oh, the irony. To "get back some of what made you alluring in the first place," explore your personal interests and reconnect with the person you are outside of your marriage, she said. Crank Up Your Sex Drive. She's not feeling emotionally connected.

Other potential sex-drive-stalling meds: In a recent Health. Clayton suggests finding time for some nonthreatening and nonjudgmental sex talk not in bed , during which a woman can discuss what she needs in bed to even the playing field. If you notice your sex drive takes a nosedive after you start a new medication, tell your doctor; she may be able to prescribe an alternative.

Sixty percent of the women surveyed said they wanted sex just as much, if not more, than their husbands. It is not a bad thing. She says I cheated on her and I get that now, but I thought what I was doing was harmless and better to stay in the marriage if I just take care of things myself. I ask and she says no. Would be a great help. There was a time when I was trying to initiate, give space and also got all sorts of excuses that led to frustration. And likewise, you have the same right.