How t spank effectively

JH Jay Henderson Jan 28, When you take away the attention from the negative behavior then he no longer has an audience. Be consistent with the rules so that your children can clearly understand them. I took a wooden spoon and spanked her, and I made sure it hurt. They made reasonable demands of their children and promoted respect for authority. Instead, use your words and come talk to me or your dad about it. One should not spank a woman anywhere above her bottom, because this can be dangerous as one approaches the kidney area.

Good luck, a boy need firm, painful spankings to become a productive, well behaved man. It just means that's not an effective punishment for this certain child. I think you need to read what I said. I really wish I had that much time to waste in my life lol. An accumulation of points may lead to a desired activity or treat.

I started as soon as they started reaching for the electrical outlet. I'm completely against spanking. Not because the reason stated in my previous response that they are never cases were violence is tolerable, but because of the hypocrisy surrounding it. Once your child is composed, answer any questions he may have about why he was punished.

TH Tayler Hilton Jan 4, Warnings Children who get spanked may develop osteoporosis and crippling depression, as well as an unhealthy abuse fetish. This confusion will make it difficult for them to clearly understand your expectations and boundaries. Let him know that he is free to return to the other activities as soon as he stops crying or whatever behavior he is engaging in. This way you can avoid the added frustration of trying to figure out a good timeout spot. My dad is always mean to me.